sorry to hear about your husband ...u don't look a day over 35..so stop lying about being 48 yrs old...go on tell the truth your 32 ...bars are for the young heads the people with class its the outdoors ...and diff events...if its companionship your looking for you'll find it ....your young ...bakersfield california right ...im mike from philly just a little older than 48...if i had a portal i could be there to meet you in person within 20seconds ...i think they are working on one.....anyway i have a little break at work so im writing or i should say my fingers are doing the writing ...they also walk thru the yellow pages but that another story ..so tell me a little about yourself how many kids,ages,schooling ,r u a working mom and so on.. yell back at me, girl ..if u want...mike