Posted by renaeleeeckert to Relationships/Sex, Nov 11, 2009 9:47am
My husband and I were having trouble having sex and I when we tried, it hurt me so bad that it would bring tears to my eyes and sex was not fun for me at all. I talked to my gynecologist about it and she told me I could have a small surgey, hymenotomy, where the doctor would cut my hymen a little bit so it would be easy for my husband to get inside me.
So I talked to my husband about it and decided to get the procedure done, we were excited because we could finally actually have sex. Well, after the healing process, we tried and tried again and we still cannot seem to actually have sex.
I don't know what is wrong, if my husband is just huge for me, but it's very frustrating. Some nights we get so upset that we don't even talk to each other. We both just want to be able to have sex without it hurting me. I mean it's suppse to be a fun and sensual thing you do with your spouse. It is very frustrating for me when I know I can't please my husband. I just need to know what is wrong with me? Or what I/we can do to be able to have sex?
We have been married since June of 2008, and not been able to have sex.