My son has been living with a girl Alicia for over 2 years now. Alicia has been supporting him through a very tough time in his life. I have come to love her like a daughter (I have two sons, no girls). Alicia is a sweet, extremely intelligent and beautiful girl. The problem? She doesn't ...
My son has been living with a girl Alicia for over 2 years now. Alicia has been supporting him through a very tough time in his life. I have come to love her like a daughter (I have two sons, no girls). Alicia is a sweet, extremely intelligent and beautiful girl. The problem? She doesn't believe any of it! She has no self confidence what so ever. She needs braces for over crowded (but VERY WHITE) teeth. She is small breasted and I believe this happened because while she was in puberty she was very overweight and went on a starvation (anorexia perhaps) diet to loose the weight, which she did. I believe doing this stunted her breast growth. (I am not a doctor, but I believe this is a great guess on my part!) The other thing about her figure is that no matter how healthy she eats or how much she exercises ... she is big in the middle. The girl is a runner and has legs to die for, but can't lose weight in the middle no matter what she does.
I have thought about writing to you about helping her many times but what finally did it for me was when she went out with severl girlfriends the othe evening and she told me that for a good part of the evening all she was doing was looking at how they had bigger breasts than her and perfect teeth or tiny waists.
Alicia has pretty much been there for my son 24/7 for the past two years. I want to do something for her that will change the rest of her life. Don't get me wrong here. It's not like the things she's self conscience about aren't real. They are. But, it's all she focuses on. I think she is beautiful now. But, being a woman, I know how these things monopolize your every thought. I am 56 years old and have had stretch marks and surgery scars on my tummy from C-sections for 37 years. I refuse to let anyone see me naked. Maybe you could fix me too!